How to be a friend to someone on the fertility journey

"It's not right but, it's ok"... I was listening to the famous Whitney Houston song and it suddenly brought back a lot of memories... Memories from Secondary School and memories of my journey. You see, the thing is, I'm still on the fertility journey. It's something I've been pondering for so long - "Where do … Continue reading How to be a friend to someone on the fertility journey

I’ve started a podcast!

In 2017, I had a conversation with someone about why I had not started a YouTube channel... Again, the common argument was that people don't read as much and my posts can sometimes be too long... For those who know me, I'm sure you could picture the "not impressed" look on my face! I've said … Continue reading I’ve started a podcast!

A Little Encouragement for 2018

Happy New year Everyone! Wow, 2017, was definitely a beautiful year for me! I pray that wherever you are on your journey, you can look back at 2017 and smile at it all. On the 31st December, I did an Instagram Live event called 'Let's pray... Together' and was pleased with the amount of people … Continue reading A Little Encouragement for 2018

Emperor Penguins

The other day I was listening to a sermon by Bishop TD Jakes and he used an analogy of penguins huddling together to illustrate his point about people working together and supporting one another. I became very curious and began researching more on the Emperor Penguin. My top five facts are Emperors are the largest … Continue reading Emperor Penguins

Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month

This month of October is very close to my heart as it's 'Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness month and National Fertility Awareness week  from 30th - 5th November. I also have my very first event with Thurrock Clinical Commissioning Group (CCG) on Thursday 17th, and... It's my 'No tea for 31 days' challenge - It's … Continue reading Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month

Negative 

So, the other evening, I took a pregnancy test. It was negative. The weird thing is, I'm not quite sure how to take it... I just feel so... blah. I'm not upset, but I'm not happy either. It's strange. Yesterday, I realised that I felt guilty for taking the test, I felt as though I … Continue reading Negative 

Declutter Findings

Three weeks ago, hubby and I began decluttering our home. We figured that we had far too many clothes and shoes with the label "I could definitely wear this again" and needed to get rid of them real quick! I'm sure many of you can identify with this. I came across a large box and … Continue reading Declutter Findings

Tips for telling your employer you’re starting fertility treatment 

Telling your employer that you are about to embark on a journey of Fertility treatment could probably be one of the toughest things you will have to do... Not only do you need to figure out who you are going to tell amongst your family and friends but, informing your boss is one extra person … Continue reading Tips for telling your employer you’re starting fertility treatment 

Be Encouraged, Be Expectant

Be Encouraged, Be Expectant... Sounds a bit cliche right? I know that when you're going through your fertility journey, some of the last things you want to hear are "relax", "Don't worry", "Be expectant, it will happen", "Be encouraged"... You just don't want to hear it when all you see and feel is an empty … Continue reading Be Encouraged, Be Expectant