How to be a friend to someone on the fertility journey

"It's not right but, it's ok"... I was listening to the famous Whitney Houston song and it suddenly brought back a lot of memories... Memories from Secondary School and memories of my journey. You see, the thing is, I'm still on the fertility journey. It's something I've been pondering for so long - "Where do … Continue reading How to be a friend to someone on the fertility journey

I’ve started a podcast!

In 2017, I had a conversation with someone about why I had not started a YouTube channel... Again, the common argument was that people don't read as much and my posts can sometimes be too long... For those who know me, I'm sure you could picture the "not impressed" look on my face! I've said … Continue reading I’ve started a podcast!

A different kinda low 

This year, I've decided that I need to stop partially writing posts and letting them build up in my drafts folder. So... here's one that I started in November 2017 and finished this month. Take a look at the image below... does this sum up how you feel sometimes, even when you've got the biggest … Continue reading A different kinda low 

A Little Encouragement for 2018

Happy New year Everyone! Wow, 2017, was definitely a beautiful year for me! I pray that wherever you are on your journey, you can look back at 2017 and smile at it all. On the 31st December, I did an Instagram Live event called 'Let's pray... Together' and was pleased with the amount of people … Continue reading A Little Encouragement for 2018

Emperor Penguins

The other day I was listening to a sermon by Bishop TD Jakes and he used an analogy of penguins huddling together to illustrate his point about people working together and supporting one another. I became very curious and began researching more on the Emperor Penguin. My top five facts are Emperors are the largest … Continue reading Emperor Penguins

Unexplained Anovulatory Cycles: Sosina and Lee’s journey to adoption

The fertility journey... what a journey it is! Over the past few weeks, I have had the privilege of connecting with some amazing and inspiring people who have been and are still on their journey to parenthood. I remember when there were times that I felt no one could imagine the depth of my pain … Continue reading Unexplained Anovulatory Cycles: Sosina and Lee’s journey to adoption

The Politics of Infertility 

Yesterday, I had the privilege of attending 'The Politics of Infertility' at the Houses of Parliament. Now, for someone who lived in the heart of London for 23 years of their life, it's pretty embarrassing for me to say that I have never even been close to the Houses of Parliament 🙈  From the moment … Continue reading The Politics of Infertility 

Women’s Health Evening

I'm still buzzing from last Thursday! My first event with Thurrock CCG (Clinical Commissioning Group) was a success! Honestly, it took a lot for me to come to this conclusion because I spent the first hour feeling deflated about the small (15) number of people who were in attendance. Myself and the CCG had planned … Continue reading Women’s Health Evening

Negative 

So, the other evening, I took a pregnancy test. It was negative. The weird thing is, I'm not quite sure how to take it... I just feel so... blah. I'm not upset, but I'm not happy either. It's strange. Yesterday, I realised that I felt guilty for taking the test, I felt as though I … Continue reading Negative 

Tips for telling your employer you’re starting fertility treatment 

Telling your employer that you are about to embark on a journey of Fertility treatment could probably be one of the toughest things you will have to do... Not only do you need to figure out who you are going to tell amongst your family and friends but, informing your boss is one extra person … Continue reading Tips for telling your employer you’re starting fertility treatment